What is true, real love? I suppose that’s a question we all have at some point in our lives. Some of us find the answer; some never do. I think I finally found it, as it applies to all the areas of my life. Please, allow me to explain. I have been married to the … More What is True Love??
In the last few days, I have wondered to myself, “Why would a person think that it’s okay to have a relationship with a married person?” Do they think that their married lover would never lie to them? Do they truly believe that what they have with their married lover is so special and unique … More Why Mess With a Married Man (Woman)?
My favorite flower is the tiger lily. It always has been for as long as I can remember. I’ve never really been sure why. I mean, they are a “ditch flower”. They grow in ditches alongside the road. In the dirt, and filth, and pollution, and garbage. As I think about it, I think that … More Tiger Lilies
On February 13, 2011, I posted the following to my Facebook. “This coming Saturday, J and I will have been married for 18 years. We have had our ups and downs. We have loved each other and hated each other. I wouldn’t trade him for the world. I love you honey, and I always will.” … More Some Pre-Anniversary Rambling
Originally posted by Mustbethistalltoride Sobbing wives write me all the time, desperate for answers. “I just read your posts and cried all the way through. Thank you for understanding me. How is it that you seem to get it but my husband can’t?” The most frequently asked question I get is: “How do I … More Cracking the Code: 7 Ideas That Would Have Saved My Marriage
Your spouse doesn’t do the things you want. You deserve to be happy. You deserve to treat yourself. You work so hard. You deserve to relax. You have been so good on your diet. You deserve that piece of cheesecake. You never do anything for yourself. You deserve to buy that expensive thing. You put … More You Deserve It
While watching an episode of Gossip Girl (yes, I admit it), there was a running theme of the grand romantic gesture. Sadly, I think that grand romantic gestures are viewed as unnecessary in our current culture. I BEG TO DIFFER!! Every woman, young lady, teenage girl, and young girl all dream and fantasize about the love … More Grand Gestures…
Crocheting an afghan takes time, patience, a little bit of skill, and a lot of desire. Much like anything else worth doing. You start with laying down a base or a starter row. It’s a foundation. Something to build on. You work a few rows in a sitting. At the beginning, it doesn’t look like … More Foundations
Good riddance, 2015! This year was arguably one of the worst years of my life. If there was something that could go wrong or bad, it did. Well, yes, it could have been worse. However, for me, this has been the worst so far…lol. Financial issues, affair reveal, job losses, automobile accidents, family member attempting … More Thoughts To Provosculate Upon
Life has been a little crazy lately. I am a little bit lost. I kind of feel like I’m just adrift at the moment. Not really anchored to anything and just floating on rough seas. I feel a bit like Peter. I have faith to step out of the boat and onto the water with … More Fear